Imagine yourself when you are in your dead bead, what are your thoughts going to be? A study that interviewed elderly people shows that at the end of their life, they are full of regrets. Regrets about the things that they didn’t do, never about things they did. Will you be that person? What if you are in your dead bed tomorrow? Have you truly lived? Reflect about it. What is stopping you from being happy and feeling fulfilled? Most likely it is your self-esteem.
I hear over and over again from women who desire to feel beautiful but when it comes to the point to do something about it they are their worse enemies. They reach out to me to do a boudoir session to help them feel beautiful but at the end, they allow their own fears and doubts to keep them where they are, drifting through life and never taking off to their full potential. They actually hang up on me when I am talking to them on the phone about booking a boudoir session.
It makes me really sad to feel that I don’t have what it takes to help these women, because I know they are hurting. I know that pain, not feeling good enough, pretty enough or totally disgusting in their bodies. It hurts me not to be able to find the right words that will help them see that there is a way out to this pain. What is it going to take? More pain? A near dead experience? Why do we need to wait until things get so bad to wake up and start living?
It doesn’t have to be that way. Doubt and fear leads to create a less than perfect version of you. Only you can stop and turn things around. What is your dream? What do you really want? Are you willing to make the sacrifice to make a change? Will you let anything or anyone stop you from being what and who you really want to be? You are your own enemy and you set the barriers that will create your regrets.
We all have the potential to be powerful, happy, brave, strong and do anything we want, if we can only believe that we are enough and deserving.
I might not have the right words to inspire these women who leave me talking on the phone or don’t answer my call. So I want to share a video from someone who is dedicated to tell things as they are, inspire and motivate people to unleash the potential in themselves.
If you are one of the women who reach out to me for help but hung up on me or didn’t answer my call because you think you are not good enough, I hope this video will inspire you to chase after your dreams and live life.